I feel I go to great lengths to please and statisfy my husband and I don't get the same in return.?

It just brings on all these questions like why? I stastify him in bed, why can't he do that for me? Why do I feel like a burden on his shoulders, I find his happy left alone, he never wants to talk or sit have a coffee or go out to dinners, but what about me? He will go down to the shops on occasions grab something I like and say see I care. He just wants to come home from work no talking, eat his dinner watch tv and go to bed while no communication between us.. If I ask a question or try conversating why am I questioning things, if I call him during the day, hel ask me why u calling u checking up on me? Ummm hmmm should I be? Then will joke around saying his with a girl and then I get confused even more! I don't know what's going through his head but I'm trying he thinks there's no problem!